THE GOSPEL MARRIAGE: "The Power of Love" -Ephesians 5:21-32

Speaker: Peter Cho

We are both slaves to power and victims of abuse because our sinful brokenness results in a relentless desire to serve ourselves using power, manipulation and control. But Jesus shows us that when the power of his love is greater than our love of power, his kingdom is brought near and unity is fostered through the exercise of self-giving love and mutual submission.

​​SMALL GROUP DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

1. Can you share of an example of when you've been a victim of an abuse of power in your life and/or an example when you misused your power, authority or influence for selfish gain (e.g. parent, boss, position, etc)? How did it make you feel? 
2. Read Ephesians 5:21-32. How do the biblical definitions and instructions for submission and headship (as defined in the sermon) compare to the world's definitions and practice of it? Why do you think these words are so often misapplied or misunderstood in our culture today? Where have you seen this demonstrated in a God-honoring way? Where have you not?
3. Review the diagram on "mutual submission" which captures Paul's general instructions to husbands and wives on how to go about expressing self-giving love to one another. How might this confirm or challenge your thoughts on roles in the marriage union on a practical and/or theological level? How do you see it impacting unity and oneness in marriage (or even your own - if married)?

FOR MARRIED COUPLES OR MARRIED GROUPS: You can find additional resources or exercises that can help build your marriage click HERE. Please use it to discuss with your spouse and/or a group with other couples.